Say what??? Ok, hear me out. As the director of Greenwood Trails, a premier sleepaway camp in the Berkshires in Connecticut, I’ve seen how transformative the sleepaway camp experience is for kids. In today’s fast-paced world, children face constant pressure to succeed, often fearing making mistakes and failing. But camp offers kids a rare and invaluable opportunity: the chance to fail, learn, and grow in a safe and supportive environment. We believe that FAIL stands for “First Attempt In Learning”—and learning through setbacks is a crucial part of growth and one of the most valuable life lessons we can give our campers.
At Greenwood Trails, kids come for sessions ranging from 2 weeks to 7 weeks, immersing themselves in adventure, personal growth, and community. During their time at summer camp, they develop resilience, the ability to bounce back from challenges, a skill that benefits them far beyond their summer in the Berkshires.
Why Resilience Matters
Life is full of challenges and ups and downs. The ability to navigate disappointment, adapt to change, and keep pushing forward is key to long-term success. Kids who learn resilience at summer camp are better prepared for the future. Studies show that resilient kids have higher self-esteem, are better equipped to handle stress, and approach life with a positive mindset.
At Greenwood Trails, resilience isn’t just a lesson—it’s built into the camp experience. Here’s how:
1. Encouraging Kids to Try New Things
From high ropes courses and flying trapeze to creative arts and sports, campers constantly step outside their comfort zones. The first attempt might not be perfect—but that’s okay. Counselors and friends cheer them on, helping them build confidence and a growth mindset.
2. Teaching Perseverance in a Supportive Community
Campers might struggle at first to hit a target in archery, start a campfire, or get the stitch right on their friendship bracelet. But with guidance from our experienced staff and encouragement from their bunkmates, they learn that persistence leads to success.
3. Fostering Independence and Problem-Solving
At Greenwood Trails, campers make decisions on their own, from choosing their daily activities to handling social situations. This independence fosters resilience by teaching kids how to navigate challenges without immediate help from mom and dad.
4. Helping Kids Handle Disappointment Positively
Not every camper wins the big sleepaway camp Color War competition or scores the winning goal in soccer. But at Greenwood Trails, we teach that learning from setbacks is just as important as celebrating victories. Campers gain emotional strength and discover that resilience leads to long-term success.
The Greenwood Trails Experience: A Foundation for Life
The resilience that campers build at Greenwood Trails doesn’t end when summer does. It follows them home, helping them in school, sports, relationships, and even future careers. Our Connecticut sleepaway camp provides an environment where kids can grow, explore, and develop the confidence to face life’s challenges head-on. They learn that setbacks don’t define them—how they respond does. Here’s a helpful article about raising resilient kids: RAISING RESILIENT KIDS
So, when your child comes home from camp talking about the challenges they faced, the moments they struggled, and the times they failed, celebrate those stories. Those experiences are what make camp so powerful. They’re the building blocks of resilience—the key to helping kids grow into confident, capable, and courageous adults.
At Greenwood Trails, we don’t shield kids from failure. We embrace it. Because we know that every stumble, every challenge, and every “First Attempt In Learning” is a step toward something greater – an opportunity to grow and become their best self. And that’s what makes camp more than just a summer experience—it’s a foundation for life.
-Owen
